Dream #1:  A Recipe for Drama

Dream: I remember that I had gone to the mall with my family, we had gone to the virgin store and we were looking at different things with a lot of excitement. Somehow Anika, my girlfriend also joined us there.

Anika: lack of discernment and self-assertion. Difficulty balancing social and personal life, affective needs, wanting to progress too fast in a relationship.

In the next scene, I saw my Grandma, Dad, and Mom, Anika and myself in our house. Anika and I were acting a little cozy and intimate. My parents were on a call and they were very frustrated as someone in their team had made a big mistake. 

Grandma: insecurities, aggression, superiority and inferiority complex, envy.

Dad: tendency to repress and trivialize situations and feelings, aggression, judgmental attitude.

Mom: hyper activity, excessive emissivity, intense needs to manifest and lack of balance between action and rest.

While this was happening me and Anika were in my grandparents’ room and we were sitting on the bed close to each other. The attraction was very strong so we kissed and at that time my grandma who was standing in the room saw us and she got angry so she started saying some things.

My parents came after finishing their call and they found out what had happened.

They started intimidating Anika so I stepped in and told them that it was my fault and I shouldn't have acted like that so they shouldn't taunt her. They started laughing a little and told me it was a prank so they were not actually angry.

In the next scene, I saw that I was cooking something with my mom and we were using the extra ingredients. In the beginning we were in a good, modern, spacious kitchen, which was quite luxurious looking. Then I remember that Anika was coming to meet me and in the next moment I was back in the house where Anika had come. The kitchen there wasn't as spacious or clean as the other one and I felt a little confined there.

Anika was also very different, she was very calm and collected, I noticed her arms which had gotten really thin and she talked in a very delicate and soft but balanced voice. 

I took her to the kitchen as I was very excited that we could cook together. I asked her if we could make something with the ingredients we had but I think it wasn't enough. She started saying something but after hearing her voice it was too much for me so I stopped her.

Note from the dreamer: I did have questions about my relationship and I am not very sure how I should feel right now I would like to get a definitive answer about Anika and our affinities because I get confused using my own judgement. Sometimes I feel that there are affinities and it is something special but at the same time I am able to realize that there are discrepencies and things to improve. I feel that due to our distance there is a discrepancy and I knwo that it's a sign because the universe planned it in such a way but I still sometimes feel confused and I would like to know more and find an answer. I am also a little scared about the answer I might get and I can understand that being the reason I am not able to clearly see the signs but it's a little difficult to navigate these feelings as I feel I am stuck somewhere in-between.

Dream #2: A Recipe for Drama

Dream: I walked in a very cluttered house, where I had brought a black suit that I had hidden under the sofa. Outside, my friends urged me to change quickly so I could go out with them. I started looking for the black clothes from earlier, I looked all over the house. 

I rummaged on a sofa where there were lots of clothes, I tried to find it on a bed full of clothes. I was worried and asked a friend to help me find them. In the end, we didn't find the clothes I wanted.